{"id":472574,"date":"2020-07-19T21:38:46","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T04:38:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/?p=472574"},"modified":"2026-02-12T17:19:23","modified_gmt":"2026-02-13T01:19:23","slug":"we-change-we-wait","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/2020\/07\/19\/we-change-we-wait\/","title":{"rendered":"We Change, We Wait"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><b>We Change, We Wait<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><b>Lia Seth<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1MPuCeBRtjxIIzw3vXzIkN4esXGOcT-WoCtWeCLnOgs4\/edit?usp=sharing\"><strong>Plain language summary<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-472574-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/content.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/Lia_Seth-We_Change_We_Wait.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/content.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/Lia_Seth-We_Change_We_Wait.mp3\">https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/content.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/Lia_Seth-We_Change_We_Wait.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wasn\u2019t even 18 months old when the Americans with Disabilities Act passed. The daughter of able-bodied immigrant parents, I grew up in total ignorance of the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.motherjones.com\/politics\/2015\/07\/americans-disabilities-act-capitol-crawl-anniversary\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Capitol Crawl<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, the tireless activism and lobbying that had brought the ADA into law, and the struggles faced by those who spent years encouraging and enforcing compliance after it passed. My grandparents and older family members all lived abroad \u2013 in India, Japan, Germany, and England. For more than a decade, the law had no direct effect on anyone in my family.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By the time I started college, my mobility seemed to be decreasing. I wasn\u2019t able to keep up with my friends, who could easily follow an afternoon walking around the city with all-night dancing. I was used to being an outsider \u2013\u00a0the only brown girl in a group of white or East Asian friends \u2013 but I didn\u2019t think of myself as \u201cdisabled.\u201d The idea didn\u2019t even enter my head until a year before I graduated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ten years ago, as a rising college senior in 2010, I landed a summer internship at a civil rights coalition in Washington D.C. along with six other college students. In our first week in the office, we were all asked to pick our interests from among a long list of issues the organization focused on \u2013 children and education, poverty and welfare, immigration, voting rights, etc. \u2013 so we could each be assigned to the projects that would interest us most. I had volunteered as a classroom tutor and Girl Scout troop assistant in high school, so I was eager to work on the children\u2019s rights projects, but another intern grabbed it first, citing a college minor in education. I let her have it and looked over the list again frantically as my manager waited for my choice. How was I supposed to choose from such an intangible list? I didn\u2019t know the first thing about voting rights or social security. I finally put my name down in the blank space next to \u201cdisability rights.\u201d No projects in that space came up so I focused on other assignments and didn\u2019t think about the list again until the summer was nearing its close.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The year of that internship happened to be the 20th anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act being signed into law, and there was a celebratory party being thrown at the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission) headquarters. I saw the event on my company calendar, but as far as I could tell, no one from my division would be attending. I wasn\u2019t asked to attend and I wasn\u2019t even feeling very well that week, but some invisible force was pulling me in. I asked my manager if I should attend and she encouraged me to go. Before I knew what was happening, I was riding the metro toward the party.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was 21, shy, and hated networking. I was so used to entering a room and being different from everyone else in one way or another: my age, my gender, my skin color. I stepped into the EEOC already eager to turn around and leave. After picking up my name tag from the registration table, I paced around a refreshment table, feeling totally out of place. No one there looked like me, and nothing was forcing me to stick around \u2013 nothing even forced me through the door to begin with \u2013 but something in the back of my mind told me to stay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As I took my seat and listened to story after story from people of all backgrounds, abilities, and races \u2013 the lawyers who had crafted the language, the senators who had signed the act, the activists who had pushed the movement forward \u2013 I felt something changing inside me. I didn\u2019t speak more than fifteen words to anyone in the two or three hours I stayed at the party, and no one made any particular effort to speak to me, but by the time I went back to school to start my senior year three weeks later, I knew what made me different from most of my peers was the pain and fatigue that I felt every day: I was disabled.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve continued changing over the last ten years, beyond my adoption of an entirely new identity. I\u2019ve become an activist, a writer, a career woman, a wife. I\u2019ve stood up and lobbied for change, for equality, for just treatment of minorities and marginalized communities as a disabled woman of color. I\u2019ve translated my own experiences into blog posts and essays, sharing my life with an audience I can only hope finds resonance in my words. I\u2019ve found a professional path that allows me to help others and be a resource and earned certifications for my work. I\u2019ve met a person who accepts and loves me as I am and planned a wedding that mixes our love of nature with our love of community. I\u2019ve become a different person, nearly unrecognizable from who I was at 21.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ADA, on the other hand, seems stuck in the past. Other than a handful of amendments and revisions, it hasn\u2019t kept up with the changing needs of a more informed population, and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">still fails to address or alter some of its own major flaws.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In 2008, my second year of college, President George W. Bush signed a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eeoc.gov\/laws\/statutes\/adaaa.cfm\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">number of amendments<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to the original act into law. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eeoc.gov\/laws\/statutes\/adaaa_info.cfm\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These amendments<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> retained the ADA\u2019s original definition of disability, but also clarified that the definition should not take anything into account that may temporarily mitigate the impairment, including mobility aids, low-vision devices, prosthetics, or reasonable accommodations. As a Human Resources specialist and a legal junkie, I know that \u2018reasonable accommodations\u2019 is a squishy term that can be hard to define. The official definition is a change that allows someone to perform the \u2018essential duties\u2019 of a job without creating \u2018undue hardship\u2019 for the employer, but a company or hiring manager can easily tell a candidate or new hire that any and all duties are considered \u2018essential,\u2019 or that providing any accommodation would create a hardship. The combination of this ambiguous definition coupled with massively undereducated managers means there are as many discrimination charges based on disability filed in the United States per year as those based on race \u2013 more than those based on age, religion, or national origin. <\/span><a href=\"about:blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the EEOC<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, 32.2% of all charges filed in 2018 were related to disability \u2013 third only to retaliation and sex-based charges. This, of course, doesn\u2019t factor in the countless cases that aren\u2019t filed or reported, either because they are settled privately, because many people don\u2019t realize what rights they have, or because, though the law is technically on their side, disabled people are put in the position of choosing whether the possibility of losing employment or income is worth fighting for their own legal rights.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Four years later, when I was still relatively new to the working world, I began using a wheelchair on days when my mobility was especially limited, or days when I knew I would otherwise be spending a lot of time standing. After I mentioned it at work, a white manager told me that I should try not to use it if I knew I would be at a client-facing event. Years later, I realized I should have questioned that request, fought back, or taken it to Human Resources, but at the time, I was twenty-three and didn\u2019t realize that what they were asking was inappropriate and illegal. The ADA often only works when people with disabilities do their own research and fight their own battles, but for young minorities without a lot of experience, who have to deal with racial bias among other biases, losing a job is a risk that may not be worth the fight. In my case, a wheelchair would have been a totally reasonable accommodation I could have used to make my job easier, and that manager should have received mandatory training from the company on what they could or couldn\u2019t ask a disabled employee to do \u2013 it shouldn\u2019t have been up to me to explain the law. As of now, the only legally-mandated training managers receive are harassment prevention, which only briefly touches on disability rights, but does not necessarily spell out the law. This is a change long overdue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A 2010 revision to the ADA updated the Standard for Accessible Design, which affects newly designed and constructed or altered public buildings. Despite this, many new constructions are still coming up with areas that are entirely inaccessible<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.libraryjournal.com\/?detailStory=hunters-point-library-confronts-accessibility-issues\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> such as a recent multi-million public library in <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">New York City<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Technicalities and loopholes exist, but this often comes down to an enforcement issue. At the same time, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/blockclubchicago.org\/2018\/12\/21\/family-can-add-garage-to-historic-home-for-daughter-in-wheelchair-board-rules-in-bitter-zoning-dispute\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">older buildings seem untouchable<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 historians and purists argue that original design must be preserved, and that there is no way to add accessibility without tarnishing the look and feel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before starting college, I took a trip to Spain to take in the gorgeous architecture and was pleased to discover that I could access the towers of the historic <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sagradafamilia.org\/en\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sagrada Familia<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by way of a modern elevator. Construction began on this basilica in 1882 and it looks just as grand as always. There are always methods to <\/span><a href=\"about:blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">increase access<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> without compromising design by lowering elevations, adding ramps, or countless other ideas\u2026if designers are made to listen. However, designers are not required to consult with ADA experts, which often results in <\/span><a href=\"about:blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">inaccessible new structures<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> opening their doors to the public without penalty.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ADA seems all too glad to throw up its hands in defeat rather than educate and enforce \u2013 the ADA doesn&#8217;t even have an enforcing body at all; it&#8217;s an act that relies on the individual to complete checks and balances. In 2018, the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/dredf.org\/hr620\/overview-of-concerns-with-h-r-620\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ADA Education and Reform Act (H.R. 620)<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which officially shifted the burden of enforcement to people with disabilities, passed the House. This bill removed any incentive for buildings and businesses to comply with the ADA until someone with a disability proactively reported that they were unable to use or enter the facility. This burden should not fall on a marginalized community, many of whom do not have the resources to report claims, and have been ignored before. This is another change long overdue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another ADA revision in 2016 specified the obligation of public accommodations to provide appropriate auxiliary aids and services for people with disabilities \u2013 specifically movie theatres providing closed captioning and audio description when available. But how often does this really happen and who is keeping track of it? Everyone I know who is deaf and\/or hard of hearing have reported that most theatres they go to do not offer this, haven\u2019t heard of it, aren\u2019t at all familiar with the law. Every worker should know that these accommodations must be offered and that should be up to education from managers and owners, mandated by the ADA, the same way some states require annual sexual harassment prevention training. The theatres that do offer these services \u2013 theatres that my friends go out of their way to visit \u2013 often have broken or faulty systems, rendering them useless. The unpredictable variability means that the law is not being upheld, and there are no specific mandates regarding minimum upkeep, number of audio description systems that should be available, or employee training. This is yet another change long overdue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not the same person as I was in 2010 \u2013 or 2000 or 1990. I\u2019ve grown and learned. I\u2019ve taken on new responsibilities. I\u2019ve changed my opinions when presented with new or compelling data. I\u2019ve acknowledged and addressed many of my flaws. I don\u2019t believe I\u2019ve reached my final form, and plan to keep adapting. I \u2013\u00a0and all disabled people \u2013 deserve an ADA that doesn\u2019t put the onus on us to enforce compliance. We deserve an ADA that grows, learns, and adapts to better serve us, the portion of the population it was built to protect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s been thirty years. Why is the ADA still stuck where it started?<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>ABOUT<\/strong><\/h4>\n<figure id=\"attachment_472528\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-472528\" style=\"width: 325px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"472528\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/2020\/07\/19\/we-change-we-wait\/lia-seth\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?fit=3024%2C4032&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"3024,4032\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Lia Seth\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;An Indian woman wearing a black sweater with pink and orange stripes and blue jeans smiles in front of a green tree with purple flowers. Her hands are in her pockets.&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-472528\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?resize=325%2C433&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"An Indian woman wearing a black sweater with pink and orange stripes and blue jeans smiles in front of a green tree with purple flowers. Her hands are in her pockets.\" width=\"325\" height=\"433\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?resize=1800%2C2400&amp;ssl=1 1800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth.jpg?w=2720&amp;ssl=1 2720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 325px) 100vw, 325px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-472528\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">An Indian woman wearing a black sweater with pink and orange stripes and blue jeans smiles in front of a green tree with purple flowers. Her hands are in her pockets.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Lia Seth<\/strong> (she\/her) is a Human Resources specialist living in the San Francisco Bay Area Peninsula. She is a lifetime Girl Scout member, pub trivia host, and avid cross-stitch enthusiast. Her original writing has been used and featured by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/p\/621874c47b9d\/edit\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pearson Education<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gottman.com\/blog\/id-sworn-off-dating-allies-until-i-met-a-real-one\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the Gottman Institute<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/apracticalwedding.com\/healthcare-gender-bias\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practical Media Inc.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/trailhead.gsnorcal.org\/build-and-maintain-inclusive-girl-scout-troop\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Girl Scouts of Northern California<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/2018\/02\/11\/ep-18-accessibility-and-the-ada\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the Disability Visibility Project<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/liaseth.tumblr.com\/private\/122221401479\/tumblr_nqdo69efhz1tuqsab\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">AMI (Accessible Media Inc.) Radio<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kqed.org\/perspectives\/201209200735\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">local NPR radio stations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She has been diagnosed with <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sympathetic adrenergic overdrive and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, hypermobility type.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Read all 13 essays from the <a href=\"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/ada30\/\">#ADA3oInColor series<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Support Disability Media and Culture<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/donate\/\"><b>DONATE<\/b><\/a><b>\u00a0to the Disability Visibility Project\u00ae<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We Change, We Wait Lia Seth Plain language summary <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/content.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/Lia_Seth-We_Change_We_Wait.mp3\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/content.blubrry.com\/disability_visibility\/Lia_Seth-We_Change_We_Wait.mp3<\/a> I wasn\u2019t even 18 months old when the Americans with Disabilities Act passed. The daughter of able-bodied immigrant parents, I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/2020\/07\/19\/we-change-we-wait\/\" class=\"read-more\">Continue Reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">We Change, We Wait<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":472663,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6701202],"tags":[3471,173786,66130,587152916,10372239,55897910,113093,7915],"class_list":["post-472574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guest-blog-posts","tag-accessibility","tag-accommodations","tag-ada","tag-ada-30-in-color","tag-disability-community","tag-disability-identity","tag-discrimination","tag-employment","post-has-thumbnail"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Lia-Seth-copy.jpg?fit=3020%2C1668&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4H7t1-1YWa","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/472574","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=472574"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/472574\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/472663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=472574"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=472574"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityvisibilityproject.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=472574"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}